Tag: self esteem
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Don’t Let Anti-Jane Austen Fans Bring You Down

Have you ever been judged for your reading choices? Have you ever felt belittled for enjoying classic literature? I have. Recently, I went to Waterstones to buy a copy of Emma by Jane Austen, and I was met with heavy scrutiny by an anti-Jane Austen fan. He told me that it was unoriginal and Austen…
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Embracing individuality: our timelines are not the same

As a society, we often place a lot of pressure on young people to “settle down” and start a family. But the truth is, everyone’s path is different, and it’s okay to take your time and live life on your own terms. If you’re 23 and feeling like you’re not quite ready to start a…
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Avoiding the Relationship Dependency Trap
When it comes to maintaining healthy relationships, finding a balance between independence and spending a time together is of high importance. It’s completely natural to feel comfortable in your partner for emotional support and general time spending. However, there’s a line that you just simply can’t cross, and becoming overly needy or overly dependent tends…
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Treating yourself: a reminder
Today I’m going to talk about something that we all need to remind ourselves of from time to time: It’s okay to treat yourself to things you want sometimes. You deserve it! In our fast-paced lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily routines and forget to take care…
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Moving On from a Failed Love: It Takes Time
“It takes time” and “time is your friend” are common sayings we come across our lifetime. Love & relationships are something that come and go, and when they don’t work out, it’s that sense of loss and grief that takes over. I think it doesn’t really matter how long something has been, it’s the feelings…
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Flying-solo on V-day
Valentine’s Day is a time when love is in the air, and people all around the world are celebrating their romantic relationships. However, not everyone is in a relationship, and that’s okay! Being alone on Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a downer; in fact, it can be a great opportunity to celebrate yourself and…
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Failing Forward: How to Turn Mistakes into Masterpieces

The big F. A scary word for most of us right? Knowing that you’ve failed something is painful and makes you feel negative through and through. The media have ploughed it into our head that “failure is not an option”. But how do you think great philosophers got by? How do you think scientists built…
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Self-Esteem Boosting Strategies

Self-esteem is like the fuel for our confidence engine. When we’re running low, it can be tough to get through the day. But don’t worry, there are plenty of ways to boost your self-esteem and get back in the driver’s seat of your life! Self-compassion is the ability to be kind and understanding towards ourselves…